You Could Be Happy - Snow Patrol

Should anyone ever be able to define themselves? Like you know that icebreaker game when you describe yourself in one word? What the hell!? One word doesn't make a person. One action doesn't even make a person. I was searching the web and came across some one's advice to figure out your personality, values, goals and friends. I can see how knowing yourself would be a good thing, but then we are always told to push ourselves and test our limits by teachers and parents. I believe we are always changing especially day to day. I know right now I'm going through a faze and I just need to step out of it but this faze might one day be a defining moment for me.

I don't know if anyone will find this relevant except me, but my favorite books in series such as The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants and Twilight, are the ones where (on of) the main character(s) are going through something. I like the Second Sisterhood the best because I always seemed to identify with Bridget the best (even though I'm not an athlete) and when she was going through all that stuff with her past it all spoke to me. This bubbly character was darker and more real than ever. It's like when I'm a bit down or out of it, it seems like everyone notices because I'm not Blaire! the loud crazy girl. Whatever. No one's one thing ALL the time. And about Twilight, New Moon was for sure the best. I knew from the beginning of Twilight that Edward leave. Maybe it's just a divorced kid thing, but I just don't feel like forever exists anymore.