Baby It's Cold Outside

For the Christmas spirit. Enjoy!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_hEJQbEYjRg&feature=related

Unaware - Midway State

I hate it but I can't help it. When picking up a magazine like Seventeen or CosmoGirl it says "Love yourself! You're great which guy wouldn't want you?! You are beautiful at any size!" Blah blah blah... Then it goes on to show posters of pretty eye candy boys with their shirts off for young girls to put on their wall or whatever. Umm hi? Doesn't anyone think that that it is a complete contradiction? Because it is.

That being said even without ripping out those posters and hanging them all over our room girls still oggle at hot boys, even the ones with dignity. Really how different is it for a boy to have a picture up in his room of a half naked Pussycat Doll (ick!) than a girl to have a poster of a shirtless hunk?

So is the problem that by looking at these pictures of half naked models and singer/actors etc. one is driven to lust for them? Going to a Catholic school I know that they teach us that lusting over someone makes them become less of a person and more of an object. But is it human to lust?

This is quite the topic. And all this being said I just can't help myself sometimes. Check out the bassist for Midway State...

Cute huh? As Sam points out he is basically perfect for me because

a) he has a little build

b) cute cute cute

c) hair like I like

d) he had a sad face on while he played but then when he smiled he lit up the room

e) he is in a band

Well I guess I'm just a walking contradiction. It happens =)

White Horse - Taylor Swift

It always amazes me when I just talk. I never even know what I'm going to talk about. And I'm always surprised when people just listen. These days people really suck at listening, they don't hear you. Sometimes when you hid your deepest darkest secret down for a while and bring it up again and don't exactly spell it out but skip around it, it still makes you feel immensely better. At least it does for me. I don't get how some people keep everything hidden. I hope that everyone in the world has at least one person that they can trust. Trust is a funny thing too when you think about it. What makes you trust someone more than someone else? If they are more loyal do you trust them more? How does someone prove loyalty? Another thing that I am going to have to work on over the next few months is mending broken trust between a close friend. I'm trying though.